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ICU CHAPEL WEDDING MANUAL

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For those who are interested in having a wedding at ICU Chapel, please take the time to familiarize yourselves with the many items below.

 

APPLICATIONS / RESERVATIONS

Applications are taken at the Religious Center and may be made one year prior to your planned wedding date.  The first step is to make a tentative reservation at the Religious Center.  Following that, you will be encouraged to contact your attending minister for an on-site interview. At that on-site interview you will fill out forms to confirm your reservation.  

 

BANQUET (not available during the renovation)

An on campus banquet may be organized through the Nakatomi Restaurant Chain.  Contact the university cafeteria staff directly on this matter. 

Tel.  0422-33-3331. 

 

BULLETIN

Wedding services typically have a bulletin.  Included in it are the order of worship, hymns, and scripture.  You will need to select two hymns and a scripture passage for the service.  Your minister will assist you in making these selections.  Bulletins may be made through a recommended printer or may be done on your own. 

 

COORDINATOR/ADVISOR (not available during the renovation)

To secure a smooth flow of events, your wedding will be coordinated by the kind staff at the Nakatomi Restaurant Chain located at the on-campus university cafeteria.  Among other things, coordinators will set the lights and the public address system, attend to the chapel doors and the draping of the center aisle.  They will familiarize you and the ushers with the chapel, function as a time keeper, and will be on hand at the rehearsal and wedding itself.  Contact the university cafeteria staff directly on these matters. 

Tel. 0422-33-3331. 

 

COST

On average, the cost of a chapel wedding is 177,100 yen.  Details are available upon request.  All fees are due one month prior to your wedding.

 

DRESS

Couples are encouraged to bring their formal clothing with them on the day of their wedding.  Changing rooms are available at the front right and left side of the university chapel.  The Religious Center is unable to take responsibility for receiving garments prior to or on the day of the wedding, however coordinators at the university cafeteria are able to provide this service.  

 

ELIGIBILITY

Because of the great demand for ICU Chapel weddings, eligibility is limited to students, alumni/ae, current staff, current faculty, and ICU Church members, and children of current staff, current faculty, and ICU Church members.

 

FLOWERS

One flower arrangement at the front of the sanctuary is typical for a chapel wedding.  Grooms usually wear a small boutonniere.  Brides typically hold a bouquet.  The center aisle may be decorated with flowers and ribbons as well.   No further decorating of the sanctuary or pews is permitted.  A flower shop recommendation is available upon request.

 

FLOWER SHOWER

Following the service, some couples choose to receive a flower shower outside on the steps of the chapel.  Flower petals need to be prepared by you or a flower shop.  The throwing of rice is discouraged.  Rice is hard in the digestive systems of small birds.  Also, discarded rice leaves an unsightly mess for the next wedding and/or chapel activity.     

 

INTERVIEW / MEETING WITH THE OFFICIATING MINISTER

You are encouraged to meet with the officiating university minister two times.

The first meeting can take place well in advance of the wedding.  The second meeting usually takes place about one month prior to the service.  At the first meeting you will fill out university and church application forms.  These applications will confirm your date.  At the second meeting you will attend to wedding bulletin preparation.  After tentatively reserving your date with the Religious Center staff, please contact the officiating minister directly to make an appointment.  Following the first meeting with the minister, you are encouraged to meet with the wedding coordinator at the university cafeteria.

 

ORGANIST / MUSIC

As a rule, only ICU organists play at wedding services.  Due to a rotation system, one organist will be randomly assigned to your service.  Our professional organists will provide appropriate music for your ceremony.  Unfortunately, due to the large number of weddings, the organists are unable to take requests.  Your understanding is appreciated. 

 

PARKING

Members of the wedding party may come by car and park in a designated on-campus parking lot, a short walk from the chapel.  Payment for the parking of all cars is included in your university chapel use fee.  When entering the main gate, have all members of the wedding party instruct the gate man that they are coming for your wedding.  They will be instructed to park in Lot B, and will incur no fee.

 

PHOTOGRAPHY

In order to maintain a suitable atmosphere for a wedding ceremony, flash photography is not permitted during the service itself.  Photography is welcome during the rehearsal, processional, and recessional.  Video photography (using available light) is permitted throughout the service, but must not be a distraction to officiating minister, the bride and groom, the organist, or any other person involved in the service.  We strongly recommend that the video photographer set a tripod at a convenient, unobtrusive vantage point and remain still throughout the proceedings.  A photographer recommendation is available upon request or you may use a photographer of your choosing. 

 

REHEARSAL

The rehearsal is held one hour before the service and involves not only the groom and bride, but also the witnesses, and the bridefs escort for the processional, typically the bridefs father. 

 

RELIGIOUS CENTER STAFF

Religious Center staff will attend to the application and scheduling of the wedding service.  They are also available to answer any questions you may have regarding the use of the chapel.

 

SEABURY CHAPEL SPECIFICATIONS

Seabury Chapel has a seating capacity of 50.  For smaller weddings this alternative location is also available.  The chapel includes a small changing room and a reception area.  There is a small pipe organ.  This chapel is located on the campus quadrangle, next to university hall. 

 

SCHEDULE

To accommodate the largest number of requests, weddings are held at the following times.  Couples will have a three-hour use of the chapel.  Please be careful in respecting the time limits.   

 

Saturday and holiday weddings:

Service at 12 noon (use of the chapel from 10:00 a.m. until 1 p.m.)

or

Service at 3:00 p.m. (use of the chapel from 1:00 p.m. until 4 p.m.)

 

Sunday weddings:

Service 3:00 p.m. (use of the chapel from 1:00 p.m. until 4 p.m.)

 

Availability is limited to days that donft conflict with university and church activities.  Due to limited preparation space, only one wedding per building per day is allowed.  There are no weddings in July, August, December, and early January.

 

TIMELINE

Couples will have use of the chapel for three hours.  Please be careful to adhere to the time limits.  The coordinator will see to it that the chapel doors are opened for the appointed time.  

 

12 p.m. wedding

10:00 a.m.          Enter the chapel and prepare

11:00 a.m.           Rehearsal ? (10 to 15 minutes)

11:15 a.m.          Photo opportunity                                    

12:00 p.m.         Wedding ? (30 minutes)

12:30 p.m.         Receiving line - chapel foyer

12:45 p.m.         Photo opportunity

1 p.m. Exit the chapel

 

3 p.m. wedding

1:00 p.m.           Enter the chapel and prepare

2:00 p.m.            Rehearsal ? (10 to 15 minutes)

2:15 p.m.           Photo opportunity        

3:00 p.m.           Wedding ? (30 minutes)

3:30 p.m.           Receiving line - chapel foyer

3:45 p.m.           Photo opportunity

4:00 p.m.           Exit the chapel

 

UNIVERSITY CHAPEL SPECIFICATIONS

The University Chapel has a seating capacity of 720.  The organ (built by Rieger-Organs of Austria) was installed in 1970.  Changing rooms are available at the front right side (choir room) for bride and groom, and front left side (meeting room) for family and friends.  Wheel chair access is from the south side entrance.  Restrooms are located at the chapel foyer basement level.  Another restroom is located in the front left side (meeting room).   

 

UNIVERSITY MINISTER

As a rule, only ICU ministers officiate at wedding services.  You may request the services of any one of our ministers, or one will be randomly assigned to you. 

 

USHERS

Depending on the size of the wedding, you will need several volunteer ushers to welcome those who will attend your wedding.  The users will stand in the church foyer and receive visitors, handing out the wedding bulletins, and facilitate the smooth flow of events, including the flower shower.   

 

WITNESSES

Witnesses serve an important role in weddings.  One witness for the groom and one witness for the bride are recommended.  The bridefs witness will take the bouquet and gloves at the time of the vows, and will attend to the bridefs dress as needed at the time of the recessional.  At the end of the service, the bridefs witness will hand the bouquet back to the bride.  The groomfs witness will hand the groom the wedding rings.  Both witnesses will sit at the front of the chapel in designated chairs.